SeX is . . . Wonderful!
by Stephanie |
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It sure is! All the emotion and love and
feelings that go into it are
incredible. How do I know you ask? Well I don't. I can only imagine how
great it will be when I finally do it. To me sex will be magical. It will be
special and it will be mine and my husband's. |
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Unfortunately, not to many
teenage girls think the same way. Everyone knows the routine. Wait until
you’re married. God said wait until you’re married. Wait until you’
married.
That's all we hear. So why are so many not waiting until they're married. |
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Recently I've
been encountered by a couple of close friends who decided
mistakenly that they could handle it now. Their decisions have been weighing
on my heart very heavily. I couldn't understand for the life of me how they
could give something so special up to someone they weren't married to.
I had to take a close hard look at why so many Christian girls don't wait and I have not
found the
answer. So, I'm not going to tell you the many reasons you should wait, I'm
just going to tell you about me. |
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On a Personal Note. . .
My name is Stephanie. I've been a Christian since I was six. My mother had a
very hard life. My mother met my father when she was sixteen years old. She
was “looking for love in all the wrong places” due to all the suffering in her
life. She was eighteen when she had me. She thought I was “love” but quickly saw
that being a mother wasn't easy. I was sick, always in and out of the
hospital. My father also struggled with alcohol and problems in his life. My
mother hit rock bottom and the only person she had to turn to was Jesus. So
that's what she did. I did not have an extra great life. I was sick as a
child and by the time I got to middle school, I was very confused. My mother was
still struggling in her life. And in many ways I was forced to take whatever
she could give me in terms of knowledge and run with it. Although things
weren't easy my mother, she raised me to always trust in God and have good morals
and standards. My dad wasn't a big part of my life and that greatly affected
the things I did. I did things that I definitely regret now but I did not have sex.
To tell the truth I wanted to very badly. When I was fourteen and
fifteen I wanted to have sex and I wasn't even thinking about God. It was
only the grace of God that I didn't do it. Now that I'm eighteen, I
understand the importance of waiting a lot better. I've gone through a lot
in my life but one thing I've kept in tact is my virginity. I'm happy that
I'm a virgin and I cannot wait until I get married so I can have not only
someone to love, but someone I can also be intimate with. Now this was just a
summary on me. I haven't given you a lot of details or specifics but I
wanted you to get a sense of who I am. My life was never perfect and I've
had many struggles, and still do. Sex was one of the biggest ones and through
it all I
have depended on Christ to help me stand; especially when I couldn't stand
on my own. |
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situations that cause people to have to deal with sex.
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