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God knows us all, "For I know the plans I have for you, declares the Lord,
plans to prosper you and not to harm you, to give you a hope and a future."
Jeremiah 29:11
  He would not put you in any situation you and He can't handle.
If God does not want you to get married, He'll provide for you.  If you don't trust that He'll do this
then you have a problem in your walk with Christ. If He wants you to get
married, He'll provide a mate for you.  The most important thing is to seek His will for your life.
Matthew 5:33 "But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all
these things will be given you as well."
Trust in the Lord and He'll provide. Pray, trust Him with your future and ask Him to
reveal His plan for your life.  Seek God's wisdom in decision making.
James 1:5
"If any of you lacks wisdom, he should ask God, who gives
generously to all without finding fault, and it will be given to him."

It may be difficult for everyone trying to stay a virgin or giving up sex until you're married,
but it is not impossible. There's no harm in waiting. You just have to
set your limits and understand your mind and your body. Sex is wonderful and
desirable but wait until you're married; it will be worth it in the end.
"For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also." Luke 12:34

It has been said, that sex is like a "FIRE". 
Contained within the "fireplace" of marriage, sex is wonderful, 
when sex is outside the "fireplace" of marriage, someone gets burned!

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